The Weight Loss Industry Is An Emotionally Abusive Relationship
As a clinical psychologist, I often see people entangled in emotionally abusive relationships. It’s a complicated dynamic, because the person develops a ‘‘Stockholm Syndrome’ attachment to their abuser, with strong feelings of connection, dependence, and even love...
Chaotic Clothing & The King Of Boobs
This week in our local paper I was so pleased to see - on the front page no less! - an article about a new clothing line for larger men. The story contained literally NO fat shaming, no derogatory comments, zero references to weight loss - just a story about a...
Let’s not spend $1.2 million to starve teenagers
Last week I promised to tell you about something that happened at the Australian & New Zealand Association for Eating Disorders (ANZAED) conference which got me seriously fired up. As I explained last week, the theme this year was “Courageous Conversations,” with...
Acts of Emotional Courage and a Big Vulnerability Hangover
I arrived home late on Saturday night after the 2018 Australia & New Zealand Association for Eating Disorders (ANZAED) Conference, finding my 2 little girls were still up waiting for me. Although it was nearly 10pm, I was so glad they were awake, and I simply...
Putting Eating Disorder Sufferers On Diets
I’m in the final stages of preparing a workshop I’m presenting later this week at the Australia & New Zealand Academy for Eating Disorders (ANZAED) conference in Melbourne. Alongside the fantastic Janet Lowndes, psychologist from Mind Body Well (and one of our...
Weighing Primary School Kids (Again)
Last weekend there was a flurry of media on the topic of CHILDHOOD OBESITY (again), with the usual talk of ‘crisis’ , ‘prevention’, ‘tackling’ and ‘combatting’ kids in larger bodies. Why is this language always so hysterical!? The headlines were strident: “Weigh kids...